He is dating already
We were in a toxic relationship and it had to end but I still never expected him to be on a date 2 weeks after breaking up with me. Makes me wonder if he was talking to her while dating me. Makes me wonder if he even shed a tear over us. I wonder how I became so Unimportant to him. I wonder if he will Make her a priority Which he didn't do for me. I wonder if he will do all the things I wanted him to for her. Why do I care when he obviously isn't even thinking of me? I know. Move on. Live my life and let him live his. Why does it bother me that my friends just saw him on a date so soon?
@Prussianblue24 I'm so sorry dear, I feel you. I don't have much to tell you as my situation is a bit similar to yours, only that it's not about you and it's not your fault.. I finally came at peace with the fact that it would have ended even if I was PERFECT. Some people not only suck, they would be too oblivion to people's feelings and how bad they're screwing their lives, hearts and mentalities..
It's ok to be bothered, it's ok to grieve it, but through your entire process, don't blame yourself for someone else's coldness. Don't fall into self-loathing as your preciousness would be very much evaluated and appreciated by the right people, and you should put effort to be one of those people as well. 🌸<3
@BlueNeutron
Thank you. I guess it does have more to do with him than me. Still cant stop thinking about him on a date so soon doing stuff he'd do with me.
@Prussianblue24
he is dating already because he did not have the equivalent feelings of love that you had. that is the truth you must come to terms with. i had to watch my ex girlfriend date other guys immediately after breaking up with me after a looong relationship. it was horrible. but what helped me get on with my life was coming to the realization that she did not share my feelings. because if she did, she wouldn't have done what she did. spend time alone trying to understand what you want for yourself. grow yourself on another level emotionally.
@yellow7878. Thank you. I guess you are right. He was a narcissist anyway and I needed to get away from him. I should have left long ago.