He lied
My bf of 10 months was amazing to me. I loved him. And I felt so safe with him and we were on top of the world. We could do anything together. We were a team. I never been so happy with anybody in my life. We talked about marriage and kids and the future we wanted. We were always together. That all came crashing down today when I found out he cheated on me multiple times the whole time we were together. I’m so confused. I’m sad, I can’t stop crying, I can’t eat, I can’t sleep. I love him. He tells me he loves me and regrets it all and he didn’t realize what he had in front of him. He said he will wait for me and he wants to change. It all sounds like bull crap and I don’t know what to do. I broke up with him. Cause I don’t know how we can fix it when I feel like everything was a lie. Has anybody been through this and they got back together and it worked out? He says he can’t lose me and he wants to do anything to get me back. I’m so confused and hurt. But I really think he is my soulmate. Help :( what should I do?
I'm sorry that happened to you. Unfortunately, if your relationship has been going on that little and he couldn't even keep himself from cheating then, I don't see what giving it more time would do in order for him to change. Plus, you might be able to forgive him, but would you really forget how awful it was for him to do what he did? Maybe taking that break and really letting him mature separately from you is the best answer. Whether or not you get back together shouldn't be a goal, rather something that could happen if you both feel it's what's best for both of you.