Hi! New to 7Cups! Help me? Ex-Relationship Problems. c:'
Honestly, using any sort of social media or expressing myself online makes me a bit anxious lol. But, I've been getting a contant pain now that's kind of hard to deal with alone. I was hoping getting into this community could help me, or let me help others later on! :0
Um...so what's wrong? I recantly dumped someone because they kind of loved someone else at the same time. It was a very deep relationship for me, at least 9 good months(A NEW RECORD HOORAY!). I've never developed any sorts of feelings like this before and have it taken away from me before. While it seems like I'm fine, my chest has this irritating soreness in it and i cry off screen like a baby xD. Everyone always just seem to use me to fill in a temporay position and then bail when they find someone else better suited, neglecting how much I actually do care for them...
Well, enough with the small details! How do you think I should handle the pain that' going on? I'm opened to all ideas! :D
(Thank you for reading! >_<)
Have you tried out our self-help guides on breakups? Perhaps if you saw a new perspective on endings, it would help you from feeling less like a temporary position. Everybody goes through heartbreak and breakup grief, but it doesn't mean that while you were in the relationship, that you didn't mean something to them. I know how hurtful and confusing it can feel after a relationship is over but sometimes things just don't work out the way we planned. The thing to remember is, it won't always be like that and sometimes there is good, in saying goodbye.
Remember, every ending is a new beginning.
Good luck and take care! 
xx