How to move on?
I met this girl online, the intention was never a relationship. The more time I spent with her the more that I liked her. We eventually dated. During the time we were dating she was half truthful and flirting with other people. We got into a good place and eventually fell in love. We had our fights over time as any couple would..fast forward to the 8 month mark and both of us are feeling good about the relationship and decide to get an apartment together because we both mutually agreed that the feelings of wanting to be together for the rest of our lives were there..a few weeks later decide to get a puppy...and now a few weeks later decided to end the relationship. Towards the end, she was talking to a guy from work 24/7, whether it be through text or phone call. Which obviously made me upset because I thought it crossed a boundary and it felt like it's own betrayal. Now I'm stuck with an apartment I can barely afford and a puppy who I love, but it's hard to have her....and now it's been almost two months and I cant atop thinking about her and still have those feelings of being in love with her...does anyone have any advice on moving on or what to do?
@bestHouse9667
Heyos. First of all huge thank you for deciding to share your thoughts with us. And I am really sorry for your break up. It must have been hard on you. So first question after reading this that came to my mind was, what are your thoughts on moving on? What do you feel would be better for you?
@Pureriver55 at this point everything has been done to rekindle and try..so moving on is the only option now
@bestHouse9667 Mhmm, what do you think might help you in the process of moving on?
@Pureriver55 honestly not sure because I'm taking it day by day. The whole thing was kind of a blindside..so just trying to get back to a new routine