How to tell someone you don
Hi everyone,
Im 27, married for 1 year and a few months. I feel like Ive fallen out of love with my husband. I have no passion or desire to be intimate with him. Its like somehow Ive changed.. hes not the romantic type and I find myself wanting more and more romance. We live our days barely speaking, no sex, hes kind and sweet but Im not attracted to him anymore. I feel like Ive fallen out of love. Ive also barely had any experience dating Ive only had 3 relationships. I feel like I havent completely discovered myself. I thought I had my life figured out and I thought he was my soulmate but here I am.. basically since we got married Ive struggled with these feelings. I feel guilty and sad 24/7. I dont know how to do whats right for me and him. Anyone have advice for me?
Dear @tragickitty
You are very young and the time of being married is way too short to feel this way. It seems to me that this marriage was wrong from the beginning for reason you only know.
People don't just stop loving their partner.
As a woman, in a 10 year dead marriage I can tell you it's not easy to say your husband that you don't want him anymore. But the most difficult is to tell yourself that you feel this way and that you have to do something about it.
But if you don't ..sooner or later you will get used to it... And if you get to have kids things will become more complicated..
If you really love someone you don't stop loving him. Eventually desire, romance fade.. but not love.
You are at the begging of the journey. Things should be easier and happier
Listen you your heart
💓