Hurting
My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. I was completely blindsided because we were doing great. We had evening plans the day he showed up with my stuff and said it was a over. He told me he was told the day before he had to move for work in less than 3 months and he started crying when he told me. Then he said we're breaking up and he was unhappy. I was so confused because I was like when have you been unhappy? He just took me to the movies, dinner and the arcade and a pumpkin patch the day before. I was literally lost for words. I feel like my voice, opinion, and control I had was completely taken away and he said he had made the decision in 24 hours.
My head is still spinning because after I texted him with questions and his answers were just as confusing as the breakup. We were just talking about getting engaged and when we'd want to have kids like the week before and how I can C always trust him etc. My heart is in so much pain, and i keep crying like every 30 min. Majority of my friends are either engaged, in committed relationships or married with Kids, so i feel super alone with no one to really talk to and it hurts.
@HopefulNHelpless
You're not alone! We're here for you 🙋I'm sorry you're going through a hard time filled with confusion. I hope that you'll get some clarity and a real closure. If not, just know that you deserve someone who is honored to stay with you through thick and thin.
@HopefulNHelpless
I'm so sorry you're hurting so much right now. It's so hard when you have such hopes and dreams with a person as you had. I'm going through something similar. I'm out of an engagement now and having that as such possibility lost is really hard. I feel a heavy heart with you.
I've been diving into things that give me a sense of who I am. I've been trying to give myself personality and surrounding myself with people who love me and can give me messages of love. I hope you can do that too.
