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I decided to move on but…

User Profile: Actuallyaries1
Actuallyaries1 December 24th, 2022

It’s been a month since I breakup with my ex and Today I finally have decided to move on.

I started to learn new language and stop keeping any hopes about us getting back together.I don’t know if time will heals my wounds or not but deep down it really hurts.I don’t know why love is temporary.It broke my heart into pieces while watching someone change right in front of your eyes and beginning to realize they aren't the same person…

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User Profile: GoingInCircles365
GoingInCircles365 December 28th, 2022

@Actuallyaries1

Sending good vibes to you. I'm kinda in the same boat, and I think learning a new language is a great thing to do (I love learning languages, so it's both entertaining and a great distraction)

Breaking up with someone sends a person into the same phases as grieving. You have denial, bargaining, anger, etc., and then you finally get to a point where you feel a sense of acceptance, but it's not an easy path, especially if you are still hoping in some way to save the relationship.

I'm still in the "I hope we can reconcile" phase and it's definitely not easy, and I can distract myself with foreign languages for only a limited time before I come back to thoughts of the relationship.

I also find that writing is really helpful. It helps me sort out my thoughts and feelings.

Love can be a beautiful and wonderful thing. It can also be terribly painful.

Hang in there!

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User Profile: Actuallyaries1
Actuallyaries1 OP December 30th, 2022

Yeah moving on is easier said than done but we will do our best❤️

I've been doing meditation each day, I hope it works ❤️

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