Idk what to do
I’ve been with my husband for 9 years only married for 4 months. He’s cheated multiple times over the 9 years and he said everything would be different once we got married. Idk why I believed that since nothing has ever changed. About 2 years ago we broke up and he had sex with my friend that used to live with us and she got pregnant. The timing was off so I don’t think it was his baby and he claims it wasn’t but idk why he would keep talking to her. Well he started talking to her again. I keep trying to talk to him about it and he’ll get mad and say I pushed him to talk to her or other females. He said to print off divorce papers and he’ll sign them because I never give him any peace. We have 4 kids and just got a house. Idk what to do. He doesn’t want to do counseling or anything else I suggest. I guess I just need someone to talk to.
Hey @enthusiasticCucumber2103
I don’t think I’m qualified to give you advice because I haven’t been married. But I feel for what you’re going through. Your husband seems very toxic and it seems like he’s projecting his insecurities onto you. You might want to stay with him because of the kids and the house but if he doesn’t want to do anything to help save the marriage I don’t see the point in trying to make it work with him. You deserve better. Maybe get legally separated if you’re not sure in divorcing just yet. And I’m here if you want to talk further.
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@enthusiasticCucumber2103 Hi am very sorry for all you're facing right now but I think is not right chasing what is not ready to stay already so you just have to let him go so far he has already made up his mind going for divorce, I believe he gonna regret his action later