I just don’t understand
My friend from and I hooked up after three months of flirting.
Everything was cool and we decided we are gonna be friends with benefits In private.
last Time we were together was in October, after we just see each other on our working place. We talked, shared privated stuff beetwen, we could tlak for hours about everything, I started being confused.
We are not hooking up, but he is texting me, calling me cute names, drives me home and when I turned my back he said “Good night sweetie” I didn’t turn because I was in shock.
After 6months of talking, texting, laughing he find a girl whi cheated every boyfriend that he had. She is everything opposite of me physical and social od me, she is calm and like a good girl, acting like a lady, I am loud and wild:)
He is in love with her after two weeks!
I’m a little sad that he find a girl because I thought that we had something just never asked him does he feel the same because I think that the problem was that he couldn’t be with me because we worked together and other will maybe laugh and comment that and I am 10years older but this girl that he has now is 6years older.
Ps. This is his first serious relationship.
I just don’t understand..
@reservedJackfruit9135
I may misunderstand because this is something we didn't do in my day but doesn't Friends with Benefits mean that you have a sexual relationship(Beenifits) without the dating obligations(Just Friends)?
If you wanted FWB you got it. He had no obligation to be true to you and nor do you to him. Go out and find another person you like. Remember the good times you had and be happy.
@reservedJackfruit9135
did you think saying friends with benefits would be a door opener?
Sounds like you developed feelings and he moved on......... is it jealousy ?
it never makes sense to us when someone chooses another and we think maybe we or another person is a better choice..... but the reality is it is his choice.
@reservedJackfruit9135,
simple, he likes me, nothing more, nothing less.
I understand that it's hard but it's life.
I mean, he likes you, nothing more, nothing less
