Im scared of losing her for good
My girlfriend and I have been going through a serious rough patch lately Last Sunday, I went to hop on her PC to game for a bit, went to log her off Discord, for some dumb butt reason, I got curious .......and looked at some of her messages. I felt so bad that I told her immediately. Even though I found very little bad. She kicked me out of her house and is barely talking to me I understand I messed up, and I've told her this. Yesterday was really close to ending things with me I talked her out of leaving me. We agreed to take things just one day at a time. On her schedule , as slow as she needs to Today we hung out to watch Loki She would'nt let me touch her, but she laughed and acted more like herself She said we needed to keep the hangout short She's only responding to my messages with 1-3 word messages She still hasn't called anything off yet, and has still agreed to take things a day at a time I'm so scared of losing her I don't want to lose her, without knowing I tried to fight to fix things with her first We've been together 2 and a half years, we usually talk things out We've been talking marriage. Please excuse the long post
Hey. I understand everything that you've said and as a girl myself let me tell you something. She forgives you, but she was simply shocked by your action bc you have been together for almost 3 years and she was upset bc u thought that she was talking to some other people. She is going to be okay after some days. You just have to wait and be patient with her. Treat her in a very nice way and make sure not to do it again. Maybe you can buy her a gift, its gonna help a lot trust me. Try not to bring this problem up a lot. move on and fix everything.