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I need advice

User Profile: QuietMuse
QuietMuse June 22nd, 2017

MY boyfriend broke up with me today and I just don't know what to feel. He told me it was because he wasn't satisfied with our relationship because I wasn't getting any help for my severe anxiety. Was that the right reason to break up with me? I love him so much and he still wants to be friends and I want that too of course but I'm just so hurt and I don't think things will ever be the same again. I could really use someone's perspective on my situation. Thank you so much for reading this. I really appreciate it :) I just really could use someone to talk to because I just spent 2 hours crying in the shower and this was my first ever relationship

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User Profile: QuietMuse
QuietMuse OP June 22nd, 2017

Oh sorry the "my" wasn't supposed to be in all caps it was a typo

User Profile: Cuddles1458
Cuddles1458 June 22nd, 2017

I understand how you feel and can definitely say that I've been there. I feel that if he doesn't feel emotionally ready to support you, then he did the right thing. I know that it feels like your whole world is ending but trust that your life will continue, you will seek help as you are now, and you will get better. If you feel that you want more than just being friends then I suggest this, tell him exactly how you feel and let hm know of your hopes. If you do not feel that way, still tell him that you appreciate his support as a friend. If you can imagine him being with someone right now and feel happy for him, then keep him as a friend If not, again, tell him. Honesty and transparency will do wonders for your life. I remember exactly how I felt, and that was ten years ago. It will eventually become a memory that you'll look back on and learn from. Focus on you, get help, get better, and life will fall where it should. You will be okay!! <3

User Profile: SilentSerenityy
SilentSerenityy July 8th, 2017

I've moved your thread to the Breakups and Divorce section.