I need some insight on this?
Hey! I recently ended things with my boyfriend. I never would have if I didn't realize how touchy his younger sister was, (1 year apart) or how borderline disgusting some of her actions were. She did such things as twerking on him or laying on a twin-size bed right next to him. (while I'm on call with him and can see everything) I told my most trustworthy peer/friend and he used the term ¨borderline incest¨. Is this correct? But anyways... the main point of this is explaining that I still love him, and don't want to move on. But I have to, because at this point, he's probably laying next to his sister. (Yes I grew up an only child, but still...twerking on your older brother with his girlfriend there is pretty disgusting. And touching him and me!)😕
@sincereBunny2250
Hi, I wonder what your boyfriend had to say when you shared your feelings about his sister's behaviour. Did he defend it, was he angry?
@sincereBunny2250
While it sounds and probably looked bizarre.....
Have you spoken about your concerns and maybe using his response to really make a decision. Is there any chance he does not know how it looks to you?
I know a young man and his sister is clingy and........ i thought overly hugging or walk arm in arm or sit on him like a couple .... this was NOT what it looked like. More like her being weird thinking it was funny.....especially if others were uncomfortable by it ...she was laughing .. saw her do this with her other brother as well ....
Both young men is now happily married and that was never an issue. She still IMO hugs on them too long and has held hands while standing at an event where someone came up and asked if this was her bf/ husband....both found it hilarious.
I am not saying same in your case but sometimes things are NOT as just as they look.
I agree with you Tiger.
ask, talk about what is bothering you. Please do not just walk away Bunny.
if your BF and his sister are only 1 year apart, I would giess they grew up very close, experiencing and learning most of life together, at the same time.there have been many times I have told friends what they are doing is making me uncomfortable. Sometimes the actions. Ha he, sometimes I change to better understand / accept the actions.
please be open-minded.
@sincereBunny2250 If you don’t like to be touched then you should make sure you are comfortable, however as a sibling, laying in the same bed as your sibling is common if they have a strong bond. But I agree the twerking thing is weird. But it probably doesn’t look that weird to him but if he knows what he is doing then yk that’s red flags
