Involving friends during a fight

My husband and I have been having some significant issues in our marriage that have recently come to a head. He was on a snowmobile trip with a couple buddies over the weekend...left Sat pm and said he'd be home Sunday. (Typically when he has gone in the past he has come home mid afternoon on Sun) He usually texts or calls when he heads out so when I hadnt heard from him by 3 I started texting him...no replies. By 7 I was beginning to get concerned. I called our neighbor/wife of one of the guys and asked if she'd heard from them. She said yes, they were at a bar watching the games, and would be home late, prob 2-3am! (a few days prior to this he and I had agreed we were going to prioritize and focus on "us", so when he left for the trip last minute I was upset) Now finding out that he he would be back so late and more importantly that he hadnt had the consideration to call to let me know, I felt it was a slap in the face. The story is that his phone had died and wouldnt charge due to the cold. I know cell service can be spotty. I was relieved that something bad hadnt happened but hurt and pissed that he didnt contact me. He said he replied as soon as he got my messages. (he replied 5 mins after I sent him an angry text at 8 ) I believe he had issues with his phone. But the other 2 guys didnt. Service is spotty but they stopped

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