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My ex and I recently broke up about 7 months ago. He got a new girlfriend 3 months after we broke up and that was after the rebound girl he had before he starting dating his now girlfriend. About 3 weeks ago he reached out to me and told me of course everything I wanted to hear: that he missed me, that he will always have feelings for me, that he will always love me and I will hold a special place in his heart, and then he said that he could see me ending up with him in the end. Yet he tells me that he is happy in his relationship and that his girlfriend deserves a chance and that he shouldnt be talking to me... I told him to stop playing with my emotions but for some reason I still miss him. I havent talked to him since but I still look at his stuff on social media. I shouldnt want him back because of how he treated me after the break up but he was my first love and I just dont really know how to finally cut that last string and let go... I am happy now but a little part of me still misses him and us and hopes maybe one day things could go back even though I know it wouldnt be the best thing. I need advice. Help.
@jen333 I went through this with my ex. He had a new girl within a couple of weeks (the rebound) and a new girlfriend within a few months. About 3 months down the line I got the messages about it being 'the biggest mistake' of his life etc. and you know what? It felt really good to say it's too late and I don't love or want you. Some things and some people just aren't good for you and what he did is unforgivable. Why take back someone who's been with other girls since you when you can find someone new and fresh who will treat you how you deserve to be treated. Move forward and sooner or later you will realise it was the best thing you could have done :)
@bubbles1990 wow! Im sorry that happened to you but it feels good knowing Im not the only one. And he finally saw me out at the bars happy and not giving him the light of day which I feel like made him reach out to me because he finally saw me happy and not caring about him. It felt good but of course he knows how to warp me back in. I know I deserve better but thank you for giving me that little boost of no you dont need him girl (:
@jen333 Hey, men always come crawling back when you show them any signs of moving on! But he wasn't worth shit and this guy you're with doesn't sound like he's worth shit either. You'll meet the right one soon and you'll realise :)