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I still love him

User Profile: LadyP10
LadyP10 October 6th, 2021

It's been over a month since my boyfriend dumped me. I still love him. I lied to him about buying a 1,5M car, and I asked for forgiveness. He believes he was stupid to date a liar for 8 months. I did all I could to put in extra effort, but it looked like it wasn't enough for him. I do want him back. No cheating or abuse was involved

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User Profile: mysteryanxiety
mysteryanxiety October 6th, 2021

You’ve got to understand it’s not your fault that you still love him. But you have to understand that it’s not your fault. Don’t blame yourself for anything. Sometimes you can give someone everything but they give you nothing.


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User Profile: LadyP10
LadyP10 OP October 6th, 2021

He told me he doesn't care about all the stuff I did for him, he cares about his peace of mind. That's what I was trying to do, offering so much peace in the middle of whatever he was going thtough

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User Profile: mysteryanxiety
mysteryanxiety October 6th, 2021

You’ve got to understand you deserve a lot better despite the fact that you still love him. I believe that you can do this. You need to give yourself time and space away from him. Don’t blame yourself for what you are feeling right now.

User Profile: Mel
Mel October 13th, 2021

@LadyP10

Hey there!

I'm sorry to hear you've been struggling like this. Perhaps you'd like to sign out of your listener account if you're not available to help out and log back in as a member to make you get to talk about what's on your mind? You deserve to be helped too!