Just really gotta get this out
So I was dating my ex boyfriend for a year and 7 months, and honestly he is the love of my life. I have never felt more complete than when I was with him and I never feel like my day is complete now - and my heart feels like it's incomplete.
The break up was what he wanted and I still love him despite the fact that he has broken my heart into a million pieces.
The thing that has gotten to me now, after a month of finally getting to the point where I was okay is finding out that not even two weeks after he broke up with me - he got a prom date. Now - he told me he didn't break up with me because of another girl but to be honest I don't know what to believe.
It's like a huge slap in the face knowing that hes going to prom with someone - and he didn't even wait to ask someone. So now I am wondering if I meant anything at all to him. I know I would never have done this - regardless - I would have went alone out of respect for the person I spent a year with. But I guess I don't mean much at all to him anymore.
I am honestly so frustrated because I really hate this. I don't like being in love with someone who literally doesn't seem to care about me at all anymore.
I actually really want to go to his house and make him talk to me because he refuses to listen and I feel like he literally just slapped me across the face so hard. My friend here at college even said I should go make him listen because this is so stupid.
I don't know if it's just me over reacting but honestly would anyone else be upset? I would like to know.
But yeah I am just literally so frustrated. I don't even know if I can trust him anymore.
I think you should go over and speak to him once.
First of all I don't believe you're overreacting at all, I would feel the same way. It's hard to lose someone like that, and I'm sorry you had to experience this. Ithink you should talk to him, and tell him how you feel. That way you'll gain some clarity on the situation.And if he is a jerk about it, then you know you'll be better off without him, and it'll be easier for youto turn the other cheek. Stay strong! Happiness will find you again.
Hi there-I can really relate to your problem. My ex left me for someone else and didn't care about how I felt at all, even though we were close for many years. It's agonizing to think that someone you loved didn't really love you back. I know the confusion and the pain. It's not at all an overreaction.
Having said that, my advice would be to let him go. If he's willing to talk honestly and give you closure, then that's great. But even so, it might be hard to have trust in what he says, and it could leave you feeling more hurt and confused. I've learned that it's best to just let go of the people who treat you like that, even if it leaves you to pick up the pieces of your broken heart yourself. You deserve someone who respects your feelings, just like you would do for them.
Like I said, I know it's really hard, but I wish you the best no matter what you decide. And there is always me and 7cups to support you. :)