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Losing my fiance and her daughter

User Profile: Topherlee83
Topherlee83 April 6th, 2017

So my fiance and I have been together for over 5 years and i helped raise her daughter from birth. I recently lost my job due to injury so money was getting tight. Then came the arguements about money. But this past month she stopped talking to me even though we still lived together. Not only that, it was 5 months since we even slept together. So I I couldn't take it anymore and I moved out temporarily I told her I needed time to think. All she said was "whatever and goodbye then" after 5 years of me doing all I could for her and her daughter that I love very much she just brushes it off like that? She hasn't messaged me or anything since I left and it's driving me nuts. I miss them. I don't know what to do or say. Any advice or thoughts?

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April 6th, 2017

@Topherlee83

I'm sorry all that happened, sorry to hear that you are suffering. Love...well love is about all you have done for your fiance and her daughter: you loved and still love them, you showed your care, you were by her side when she needed. Now that you need her because you lost job due to an injury why is money the main focus? Everything can be faced when partners feel that their relationship is what counts in their life, bad events can give an hard time but they can not delete something meaningful. It's about to be on the same wavelength during good and bad times.

You told her you needed time to reflect, you know how much you miss them and you know if trying to contact her to start over is something worth it. In the meanwhile remember that you also deserve care and love and don't be afraid to ask for it to the loved partner : it could be like giving a second chance to something really important for you. Wish you to find the right way to fix everything, also job. Take care.

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User Profile: Topherlee83
Topherlee83 OP April 6th, 2017

@WhoeverSomewhere

Thank you for the nice reply. I really appreciate it

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence April 6th, 2017

@Topherlee83

If you feel to have a one on one conversation you can PM me. yes