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Loving a fearful avoidant

User Profile: secretPlace3692
secretPlace3692 January 29th, 2023

Anyone here been in a relationship with a fearful avoidant before? My fiancé recently left me and she knows this is her attachment style. She’s recently been going to therapy and trying to work through these things which I loved and gave me hope when things got rocky around the proposal as I could tell she was getting scared and self sabotaging the relationship. I should’ve seen it coming and in a way I knew it was because it’s what she’s done in all her relationships but I genuinely believed we were different and that she was willing to work through it together because she wanted to finally change

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 February 3rd, 2023

@secretPlace3692 Hi, I hope you're doing okay. I want to express how sorry I am that this happened to you. Please know that it is nothing you did and not a reflection of you at all. I hope she's doing okay too. I can imagine she's going through a tough time as well. I want you to know that we are always here for you and that I am thinking about you both. Wishing you the best!💗