Marriage Infidelity -
I’m newly married and looking for help with repeated infidelity in my relationship. I was unfaithful before getting married and nearly acted again after getting married but was caught by my husband before I was able to act on my intensions.
We’ve made a great deal of progress in growing our relationship since him finding this out 1.5months ago. We are now at the divided point where I’m working on myself and our relationship for the first time (professional counseling, educated reading, acting with small progressive steps) and he is not interested in further trying for relationship after years of doing so.
Is there guidance which can be given to help me with my future actions and hopefully save and transform our 4-month-old marriage?
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do you know why you chose to do it......
I read and strongly believe when someone cheats it is they are missing something in their current relationship ...... getting a need met either emotional or even physical is what i see as the main cause of the infidelity.......
why did you marry if there was things missing ? ...... i do not get why people marry and think they can change and grow a relationship into what you want ..... the first part of marriage should be the best not a work in progress
if you know what is missing or what you are seeking you can perhaps see the issues clearly.......
affairtecovery.com is a wonderful resource for infidelity recovery. It helped me and my husband. We went to their EMS Weekend (Emergency Marriage Seminar) and I did another online program. It saves my life! They offer some free resources too and zillions of YouTube videos. Hope that helps.
correction: affairrecovery.com
