Messy breakup

Hi everyone!

So, I broke up with my boyfriend of two years the other day. I think everything went ok, there weren't really any hard feelings. Of course we both were hurt. But the worst part came after... he started writing me long texts and just blaming hinself, me and just very messy stuff. He continued the next day. We both wanted to keep contact (you know, not completely erase each other) and he was especially very determined to not want to delete me from his life. But then he proceeded to delete me on instagram and facebook yesterday evening, which made me so sad. Of course I understand why he would want to do that, but when he especially said that he wouldn't and that I was the one leaving him completely alone. Even though I was still there for him after the break up and tried to talk.

Things got ugly after that and even more messier. He wouldn't stop writing me and I just got really angry and I really tried to comfort him but that very much not possible when they've hurt you so many times. We both really didn't want it to end like this, but I really can't be kind if he decides to get ugly. I know I should have understood him better. But now after all these texts, and his whole reaction to the break up, I'm feeling very uncomfortable. I am glad I made the decision, because that is no acceptable reaction from a 21 year old man.. (in my opinion). Not saying he can't react in any way, but taking it out on me and victimizing himself -> not okay.