Moving on how do I do it
My wife and I have been separated for a couple of years now tried working things out but I dropped that ball now she moved out and moved on and I cant get over her she wants me to be happy to find myself and I am having the worst time how do you find yourself without being with the one who made you whole
I think that's what she was getting at. While a person can feel like the other half of you... really you're a while person on your own. You have value. The person you love in life just adds to it. They make it brighter. But you yourself are a whole person. I think you'll need to find that again. It won't be easy. And it won't be fast. But start small by setting small goals of the things you think would be fun for you to do, or ideas that you never got the chance to explore. Pick one. Accomplish it. Then pick the next one. One day at a time. You got this.