My Husband is not active in bed ,I want a divorce

Good enough reason to file for divorce.

So what is your problem?

Take him to sex therapy counseling?

Or general counseling?

You should find a way to address the problem, to find the answer. He needs to tell you why there's a problem ..

What does he say when you talk about it? Is there anything wrong with him in that area? 11 years is a long time.