My wife asked for a divorce, is there hope? / how to survive being the sole bread winner
under 2 years in, and boom
i thought we were happy and in love. clearly i was wrong..
can 2 people live together if one is messy and one clean?
how can I survive being the sole bread winner as my wife goes to school (she wontmake a lot when she graduates either but a little would help) I am working too many hours and not making enogh money to feed us both so im going hungry
Im tierd, hungry, broke and have no time for fun or hanging withthe wife... how do i NOT get cranky/snappy/ short tempererd,,,
Im a born romantic but shed rather me do the laundry than pick her wild flower bouquets and surprise her with them...
heart broke.. defeted.. sad and lonely.. i miss my wife and she hasnt even left yet.
how cani save this marriage ? she is my whole world and im deeply in love
@indacity i am sorry to hear that you and your wife are going through this. I am going through some rough times with my wife as well. There have been a lot of things that I have read on here and other relationship repair posts that have opened my eyes.
Doing chores may seem like more to be added to your plate if you work so much and don't have time for "fun activities" but you are a married adult, so maybe helping your wife with chores and being her partner that she needs in your home will be a good start. Don't look at it as work to be done, but instead as an activity you and your wife can do together. Working together can get things done faster than just one person doing it. If she is asking of you, be there for her.
Flowers and candy are nice to recieve once and a while, but they are not going to fix things in your marriage. Talk with your wife about how you feel, be patient with her and your self. There is no easy fix, sadly. It will take time and a lot of effort from both of you if you both agree to work through your problems.
If you are having money problems then maybe you and your wife can sit down and get a budget planned out so you can see where money is being wasted. I hope you can find more help if you need it, but here is a site that gave me some good pointers and hope for me and my wife. Hope it can help you too.
https://marriagemax.com/answers/
https://marriagemax.com/mc2/