@enthusiasticTree
Im sorry to hear this. I wish I have the right words to make how u feel go away. You need to be strong for your baby. Now shes/hes what you have in their life. Everything happens for a reason and hopefully by the time you figure things out, it will be over and will fade away. Im really sorry for what you are going thru. Tomorrow will definitely be better. Please be patient and stay strong.
@LadyInSilence thanks for the kind words. I know it will get better. It
@enthusiasticTree
Your nickname should be able to boost you up.
Thank God for your little baby girl.
@enthusiasticTree
sorry friend. it goes that way sometimes for us guys.
This is one of the most challenging times in your life. You can do it, you always have figured out how to solve anything.
It sounds like you did everything that you knew or could find out to do.
A man with dedication and kindness is a rare prize, later when your ready other girls will find you.
I can suggest you investigate a book titled "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. It might help you to understanding of what has happend to you. And help to avoid the same in the future.
I know it will not make it feel better for now, but undstand that this situation happens to thousands/millions of nice guys. I believe it is possible to fix early in the situation, but unlikely now. At this point you focus on self. Check out that book, it is worth your time.
Any follow on post/topic are welcome.
Good Luck
@metalwater thanks fir the advice I
@enthusiasticTree
What you are going through is common with us men. We need to realize that women are constantly changing, and may decide to leave at any moment, for any reason, or no reason at all. Our society is sick in that it does not encourage loyalty any more. As others have said, it's ok to cry. Mourn what was lost, but realize you are still a good person, and worthy of love and respect. Your wife disrespected you. That's a sign of her character. You deserve better. Be good to yourself, and one day you will be happy again. We are here for you.