Newly separated and moved out, children stayed
Hi everyone. I am currently going through a divorce after nearly 22 years of marriage. He refused to sell the house so I had no other option but to buy my own house and I moved out last week. I haveca son 21 and daughter 15. My son stayed behind and my daughter is spending most of her time there and coming her a few nights a week. I am having huge issues dealing with the whole house move and situation with my daughter. Plus he is being very sneaky and secretive and I worry whatvrubbish he is telling them.
@chrissiemak I am sorry to hear it Chrissie. It is a rough time for ya and I get that how hard you trying to manage everything.
When you both separated, it has some impact on your kids as well so you can expect behavioral changes in them.
Probably you could communicate things clearly with your daughter and son? It will help you to fill the gaps and make them understand how sometimes we all take tough decisions even though we never wanted that.
We all are here with you to support and listen. Feel free to share your thoughts and emotions with us.
Sending you hugs!
@ASilentObserver thank you. I didnt realise how hard moving out would be. Feel like Ive list everything, my whole world
@chrissiemak Yes it makes sense how you feeling. But you are not alone. We will go through this phase together and things will get better.
@chrissiemak Yes it makes sense how you feeling. But you are not alone. We will go through this phase together and things will get better.