Please help
My ex and I dated for 2 years and were friends for 4 years. We had a rocky relationship and would have weeks of arguments but I know we loved each other more than anything. We have grown up together and I loved him more than anything. I have horrible anxiety and he was my only friend. We broke up 3 months ago and have continued talking very closely, I thought we were going to get back together. He is moving away and believes that he would be stressed out due to trust issues and would not be happy in the relationship due to arguments. He officially ended our relationship forever while asking to remain friends. I worked on myself and I know that I would never hurt him and that I have worked on communication. It hurts so bad to lose someone you worked so hard to be with. I never want to love anyone ever again. I spend hours crying everyday and cannot function properly due to the pain. I miss him and I wish he would change his mind and not give up on us.
Hi,
I'm sorry you're going through a breakup! What types of arguments were you having with him (Both sides). I have a friend that I would like to be with but I don't know exactly how to move forward, so I may not have the best advice. I'm here if you want to chat.
Blessings, Day
Thank you for the response
The arguments would vary but would mainly center around trusts issues or feeling like someone was not being loved in the way they wanted to be. I worry a lot and would ask questions to get reassurance but my ex would view it as accusations.
I just hope he isn't playing games with your emotions - Love shouldn't have to be so hard to keep - It sounds like you worked very hard to make this relationship work! I send strength and hugs.
@reliableTriangle8034- believe me I understand. Take it one day at a time. Invest in yourself. You can do it. If he has decided to move on without you, then give yourself time to mourn. We are here to support you during this unbelieveably tough time.