Pregnant & Broken Up
I’m 7 months pregnant and had been with my now ex for 8 years. We were living separately for the past year because he was going through a lot mentally however we were still together. We decided to move in together and have been cohabiting for 2 weeks and he’s betrayed my trust by going behind my back doing inappropriate things and lying about it twice since we’ve been here. Yesterday, I told him we can’t be together due to his unacceptable behavior but I feel so stuck because I’m no longer working and was in a car accident that totaled my car! I’ve never been dependent on anyone and out of all the times - why now!! If he wasn’t ready, I was fine where I was! I didn’t ask to live together! I feel so much anxiety trying to figure out how to get out of this situation but it’s overwhelming. Any advice?
Do u have any friends and family nearby that could help u? I think it would be better to get some help and company while u are preggy now and dealing with all the mess..Please note that you have been heard from me..Arguing is only gona make things worse at this moment ..I hope u are able to be ok at this point
If this guy, a grown man, is acting like a kid right now, he will not be much of a father figure. The lack of money however seems to be an issue for you. Start thinking of an exit plan, you have 2 months to figure it out. Be strong.
