Recent Breakuo
I was just broken up with because I have bad mental health issues. I have bad anxiety and depression and it was talking a toll on the relationship. It hurts so bad to know that he left when i needed someone to help me most, but i don't blame him nor do i hate him. I just don't know how to get better from this
My fiancé walked out on me 3 days ago. He told me that I don't appreciate him and constantly complain about him not cleaning the house up or him stay out all night or not trying to spend time with me or our sex life which is not true. In the beginning of April I got tested positive for covid-19 so I haven't been working that's a lot to deal with by its self I've been stressed out and having anxiety Attacks and Suffering with depression. I've always been the one holding everything down and I always Allowed him to sit back and Hustle. I've never begged him to get a real job because he has things on his record that could possibly stop him from getting a job. My parents often get mad at me for staying with him we've had some problems with domestic violence and they say he has no work Ethic and he has children and I don't. I've live in a different state then my parents we moved to where he is from and I'm alone a lot I know stupid right
@understandingPineapple86 I'm sorry to hear that too Pineapple. That must of been hard for you moving from your parents giving up your life to be with someone. Again you deserve so much better and will find out. Someone don't understand how you feel or know your issues and that your a real problem who just wants someone to understand and get them but they was mistreated again. I hope you can find someone soon and not let this stop you meeting someone else. There are alot of guys out there who will wanna know you and share your experiences with them with not giving it a second thought. Do things what will help you what will make you happy. Help yourself to help you, keep in touch with people, don't let anyone or anything define who you are and don't think or believe you aren't a worthy person or deesebe to be happy cuz you are. They don't deserve too and they won't get better cuz your better then them and they know that. Believe in yourself and don't shy away with who you are cuz you got alot to give and need the people to give that to you. I know some won't but we don't need them cuz were nothing like them. Were us. We sent shallow shelfish nothing. Think of karma it's bad
@bekah03 you are right that the relationship was a difficult one for yourself and him but shows alot when relationships isn't perfect and that people don't always get what a relationship is through what it means and when things change or other aspects of the person changes where we go and who we talk to about these things in what we do when we have a problem. Sometimes you can work on a relationship sometimes you can't but sounded like this your health couldn't be helped. You had health issues, you didn't want that to be a problem, you were honest and open, you made him aware and the important thing was you didn't hide that from them. You spoke about it which is the best way of doing talking to someone about your feelings but we all been there when we don't get what we want from it. It's not that it's us who just like anyone shared there feelings to someone and reached out to someone it's those who just is not gonna change for you or themselves cuz the don't wanna be with someone who they think will have a negative impact on there life which isn't at all true and that is a misconsuption people have so if that person didn't understand and couldn't take it then let them not and take away the truths what are true and not the false points. You are a good person and you will get a good person cuz you are and that was what you needed by sharing to someone and see that you wanted to not let this denie you and get them to understand and respect you who you are and what you got which is something what you want them to see and help you with. All you did was reach out and that showing your dark side was made to feel that it was but it wasn't. Most won't understand and that's what mental illness is about. We can't get others to understand but you now know you will not be the person again to get mistreated who you will find someone what will not mistrrst you. Remember your a good person and deserve more alot of respect for that then you are as someone going through hard time. Your no different to anyone.
