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My boyfriend of three years broke up with me seemingly out of nowhere two days ago. We had been talking about getting a house, and just got two kittens together.... he already took all of his stuff and doesn't want to be in contact. This is absolutely a break up I don't want. I don't want this to happen and am so unhappy. I've been through multiple break ups before, yet this is so different. I really thought that this was it, I was set for the very long term with him. It's like my world turned upside down. I don't want this.....
Something my have scared him. Has something happened recently that upset him? Maybe in his personal life? I would say, give it about a week, then send him a text. Don’t call him. Send him a text and ask what exactly happened, unless he gave an explanation already. You deserve to know what’s going through his mind.
Sorry to hear this. I can completely relate. Boyfriend (and baby daddy) broke up with me out of the blue. Had been picking out rings and talking about second child, and then all of a sudden he wasn't happy and moved out/became so cold. I don't have any advice, just wanted to drop in and say I can relate and it's heartbreaking. So hard to be blindsided when you had so many future plans. Sending you a virtual hug.
The exact same thing happened to me last week. We were working towards renovating my house so he would come live with us (me and my kids) in June. We never had a fight. Everything was amazing. On the ladt Sunday, he said he loved me and see you Friday. He kissed my daughters on the forehead and said he would see thrm soon. On Monday, he called on videochat for 5 minutes to say I'm dumping you for another woman. He became so cold. Like a stranger I never knew. But don't take the previous advice and go back to him. He's a coward, he freaked out. He will do this again and again at every life's important events. Everybody would be looking for him on the morning you give birth to his baby. He's a jerk. Hugs! Be strong!