What to do when his family doesn’t like me
So.. there’s is a lot to this story. To start we’re in our 30s. We have a lot of issues.. well. All caused by communication and lack there of. But… he’s not sure he wants to work on things because his family doesn’t like me now.
I don’t know what to do..
@scarletStrawberries2332
I am sorry to hear that you are both having a hard time, family is really important. My best advice would be just to be really honest with them about everything. chances are they will understand. If you need a chat just click on my profile!
As hard as it is to hear I think you need to be apart from this person and work on your issues separately. You need to be there for yourself first. Lack of communication will kill the best relationships because you are exhausted trying to guess what the other person is thinking and it is no way to live. If his family doesn’t like you it is not your fault, you can’t control how others feel about you but you can control how you feel about you. You need to love yourself and respect yourself first. You need to be with someone who respects you and doesn’t let how their family feels influence their feelings. For now it seems you should just work on yourself, you can’t waste your time trying to guess his feelings that’s not fair to you. I’m sorry and I hope you will be well no matter what 💕
@scarletStrawberries2332,
if both of you truly love each other and want to make things work, how about relationship therapy.
If you decide to, take your time to find a therapist you both feel comfortable with and focuses and expressing your feelings, needs, boundaries to each other. One that asks both of you to go deeper and express your true self.