When is it time to walk away?
I have been seeing a wonderful man for a little over 6 months, it's complicated but I'm starting to feel bad about myself and feel like it's not going anywhere, is it my insecurities or is it time to think about moving on?
@amicableIdea8984
Ahhhh sweetheart, it's really difficult to make decsions when it comes to affairs of the heart, and I don't have the answers for you, but I guess if this were me, I'd be asking myself a few questions as to why I think I'm having insecurities and if these stem from the relationship, if I see a long term future together, and if I feel we are compatible together.
Have you tried talking to him, asking how he feels about your relationship? Where he sees this heading? Spend some time really getting to know and understand each other, and I think you will be in a better position to decide what you want from life.
ultimately, your happiness and well being must come first, you are the best judgement to decide what makes you happy.
I wish you well, and if you would like to talk about this further, I'll invite you to pm me.
Take care
Follow your heart but with caution,
It's true when they say love is blind,
Nothing is as it seems,
At least not all the time.
So you grasp onto hope but is this okay?
When should one let go?
Can we hold on the the hope of return?
Surely love so strong does show!
Through pain and smiles,
Picking up what's broken down,
What's ahead is fragile now,
Can we rewind or turn it all around?
@tornwillow
Thats lovely!
Thanks for sharing
@professionalPerspective60
Aww thanks heaps, glad you liked :) xx
Well there are all the things which gives you hint, when to walk away. It's just that we should not ignore them and if we want to stay in relation then we make sure that we try to solve these problems.
If your someone special is ignoring you, think of this as first hint. Not try to ask him why he or she is doing that. If this relation of yours doesn't lend you emotional support, there is no profit by being in relation like this. If your partners can't understand what you feel what good they are to have in life. If relationship makes you used up or exhausted, take them as a sign of criticality and find out why is this happening.