Why did she do this?
I just finished pt skool. The hardest 18 months of my life are over and I'm beyond happy, like a truck has lifted off my chest. My gf left me 4 days before my bday 2 months ago. I posted soemthing on *** about me finishing school, and 13 minutes later, she posts a picture, which she is wearing the same seaterr she wore from our first date. That same pic looks just like her tik tok profile pic, which has been her pic for months already....so why post it on *** all of a sudden? Her caption said something like "felt cute might delete later" I couldn't read her caption, let alone look at the pic. Why post something with no purpose? Did she just post soemthing cuz she saw i did? She's the one who left me, I don't understand
@toughPapaya1551
Any social Media as such will always cause such issues. In My Opinion.
If she is the Ex and you want it to be the Ex, I recommend not looking or listening for or from the Ex. Otherwise the potential for (what you are experiencing) will happen.
@Barltik2065 but what's the reasoning for her making a post with no substance 13 minutes after I make one?
@toughPapaya1551
There is no real way for you to know. Could ask but then there is the possible of a Lie.
So end result is, you can't tell. So if I were you, I wouldn't waste the energy on someone that is not a part of your life. And then chalk it up to chance.
Read the first half of your post. Something made you happy. When you focus on your own goals and success, your achievements, the things you can control in your life - you are happy!
Now read the second half of your post. Notice you are filled with questions? When you focus on your ex, or things you cannot control or understand (“Why she did this, why is she doing that?”) then you are instead filled with questions and doubt, caught in a a cycle of thoughts that have no solutions and only raise more questions that disturb your peace.
Focus on the things that matter. Tomorrow she will post another picture and another caption. Or maybe she won’t. One day there will be someone else in the picture. Or maybe there won’t. Do you plan to question all her decisions all her life? Isn’t the more important question - “Why is she still so important to you, after she broke up with you two months ago, that in a moment of your greatest success all you are thinking about is her?”
CatsInTheCradle
@CatzInTheCradle because I love her and wanted nothing more than to run at her and hug her when I got told I passed my last exam. That the weight of the world was finally off my shoulders. My therapist even kinda agreed the timing of when we met was pretty horrible considering we met in Nov 2020 and I started skool in Sept 2021, my ex also had issues setting boundaries with her parents