am i that worthless?
its been almost 6 years that we were together, but i guess all good things come to an end. he left me for another girl which he declared makes him happy, have i not given him that throughout the years? i scarifice my time and effort for him, but all those years why now? when debts and everything is at its downfall, he just left me like that. he doesnt even bother that im in pain, because he is happy right now. my entire teengae life was spend with him. i feel like shit now, im already facing depression and self-harming, why does he have to make his decision now? and all i did was wanted to work things out but he doesnt because he has someone else attention.
@worthlessjunk21
Hey there, hopefully you are doing well. There's a few things I would like to point out;
its been almost 6 years that we were together, but i guess all good things come to an end. he left me for another girl which he declared makes him happy, (This is a red flag right here. This is an indication he looks for love and validation in other people than from within, so things will probably not last for a long time. If it does lasts then more than likely it won't be a healthy relationship) have i not given him that throughout the years? (I understand how this relationship is making you question yourself, but there's a good chance what you gave him was enough. He is looking to feel the kind of love and attention his parents never gave him. This kind of love and attention is something he has to fill and find on his own, no one can give him this) i scarifice my time and effort for him, but all those years why now? (Its really hurtful going through this, specially with all of the investment and time spent on this relationship) when debts and everything is at its downfall, he just left me like that. he doesnt even bother that im in pain, because he is happy right now. (One of the most painful things to go through is breakup because a lot of feelings come to the surface, and we often question if our ex's care about how we feel. At this moment you are both in different mindset; You are grieving while he is just distracting and pushing away how he feels) my entire teengae life was spend with him. i feel like shit now, im already facing depression and self-harming, why does he have to make his decision now? (The timing of him ending things must had been rough, but it is important to see therapy soon as possible before the depression and self harming get worst) and all i did was wanted to work things out but he doesnt because he has someone else attention. (It takes two to make a relationship. I can tell you did the best you could to make it work, however he kept showing a lack of effort in making things work.)