boyfriend not attracted to me..?
I have seen all the girls he follows on social media, all that look nothing like me. They dress provocatively and show themselves off. they are adult film makers. i’m not like that. They are skinny and curvy, im not like that either. we have argued about this before and the only answer i got from him is “i followed them when i was ten” he didn’t unfollow them until this last argument but it took him some days of arguing. im not sure what to do.
@blueTiger2539
I have seen all the girls he follows on social media, all that look nothing like me. They dress provocatively and show themselves off. they are adult film makers. i’m not like that. They are skinny and curvy, im not like that either. we have argued about this before and the only answer i got from him is “i followed them when i was ten” he didn’t unfollow them until this last argument but it took him some days of arguing. im not sure what to do.
Hello there! Thank you for sharing this post with us! I'm sorry to hear that your boyfriend has been following all these girls, whom it appears he is attracted to, and so happen to look nothing like you. It sounds like you don't know where to go from here. As a listener on 7 Cups, I am not supposed to offer any advice, as any advice I offer may potentially be harmful, since I do not know the full context of your story. The decision is up to you. However, it seems to be bothering you and instead of your boyfriend acknowledging you emotions, he's arguing with you about it. What do you think would be possible decisions to make in this scenario?
Feel free to pm me if you'd like to talk about this more. :)