how to never think of your ex again?
Recently my ex had followed me on instagram. he caused me a lot of mental destruction. its really bothering me that he still tries to connect with me. im really happy in my relationship with my boyfriend. he is one of the kindest generous people i have met but i have trust issues and abandonment issues and i dont want it to take a toll on this relationship. any advice pls
CrazyBean:
I know it is hard starting over after a painful relationship - I've been there too. I don't know how long it has been but time often helps put distance between 2 people who have vroken up for whatever reason. We can't really give advice here, but my experience was just to not respond to my ex, even when it was a hard thing to do. I also found tha that it wasn't possible to "never think of him again"- at least in my case. I just developed a new life and befriended new people , like you are doing and gradually the old feelings of insecurity fell away. I suggest - take your time, give yourself time to let go and move on Not advice, just things you may consider.. I wish you well.
