i think i’ve been ghosted, tips on moving on?
i had been getting to know this guy and we seemed to be getting along so well. i loved the chemistry we had, and i could tell others had noticed that chemistry between us. i loved the tension of our unspoken feelings, i loved the energy we had. we had been forming this bond, but all of a sudden it’s broken. he’s disappeared out of the blue. please share some advice or tips, he’s always on my mind. i’m so disappointed now cause i saw so much potential for us, there was something being built that was going to be so beautiful. i could feel it in my soul. i really thought he was interested in me. but him just cutting me off suddenly and not even bothering to respond to my messages clearly says otherwise. i even had a dream where he had sent me this beautiful apology where he confessed his feelings for me. this sucks :(
i miss the way he’d make me laugh, i miss the way i made him laugh and blush. he made me feel so safe and comfortable. and ever since hes been gone i feel a void. i just want him to come back. there was so much that wanted to talk to him about.
@peaceandblessings
Hey :) It really sucks getting ghosted. I was ghosted twice before I found my current partner. It makes you feel like you might have done something wrong, makes you feel like someone could leave at any given notice. It really feels awful.
I want you to know that you did nothing wrong. I found that when I was ghosted, the best thing for me to do was to work through it slowly. I had to admit that I felt sad, a little betrayed, and maybe a little angry. After that, I looked for friends and family I could confide in. I realized that there are more forms of love than just from a partner - the kind that will support you through grief. Those are really precious.
You will find someone who will do everything he did for you and better. He won't leave, won't keep you guessing, will tell you everything. You won't have to worry about what is going to happen. In the mean time, try to work on yourself. For me, I found something I enjoyed doing. I tried to hone my skills some more abd become even better. I let my emotions fuel me to be stronger, and I ended up finding someone who appreciated all of that about me.
I will send you much good luck and hope you work through this well :)
@spicySalamander aw thanks for this reply. i already feel a lot more disconnected from this ghoster so i'm very happu about that. and i'm happy for you that the universe gifted you your current partner, that's always beautiful to see. i hope in time i'll be gifted someone who sees my value and worth.
