please help.
my was now ex girlfriend got mad at me because i called her brothers girlfriend attractive and she told me she used to think i was too and we talked on it in the past tense kind of way and my girlfriend got mad and broke up with me even tho we aren't attracted to each other anymore and i made that clear that i didn't love her brothers girlfriend but she kept saying: " i don't care. you can't fix this." and all that. so i went and posted everything i've done wrong because i felt like i needed to. we were in a happy relationship of only one month but i've known her for almost 5 years and my best friend is trying to get her to see i don't love her brothers gf and her brother got all mad saying: " don't flirt with her ever again. it's disrespectful. even if it's "past tense" being overall rude to me even though i had apologized and i was more concerned with the girl i loved than him having an attitude even though i proved to him that i don't care about his girlfriend. so i don't know what to do because she's rethinking about her decision of not ever talking to me again but i need her to understand i love her and it was just a mix up. i spent two days just making an inner decision. i don't want to lose her.
@Sa4104
You can't force someone to get back with you. It seems you need to give her some space now, you've explained yourself enough and now it's up to her whether she reaches out to you again.
If your ex girlfriend and her brother felt what you said was out of order, then that's probably a good indicator that you did indeed say something that wasn't right. Unfortunately, you may have learned this the hard way. Accepting what you did wrong is probably the best way for her to forgive you, instead of arguing against it.
@SilentSerenityy yeah...i guess that makes sense.
@SilentSerenityy even though i had already made an acceptance of everything i did do wrong and all that. so i guess i'll just wait.