Check-in For September 2022
Hey hey lovely R&F Community!
Greetings, and happy September<3 Phew, it’s been so long since I made a check in post, I missed this. But sadly I couldn’t, due to offline circumstances and mental health, I had taken a break. But hopefully I’m more active now.
What about you all? Time to check in, how are you doing?

Looking forward to hearing from you all today<3 So here are the questions for this time<3
How was your day today?
How are relationships going in your life lately? (referring to all, not just romantic ones<3)
How is your relationship with yourself lately? Do you love yourself?
What is one change you’d like to make to improve your life?
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I’m not doing well at all at the moment, my boyfriend of 5 years dumped me a couple of weeks ago because I told him I was going out with friends in a month’s time. He didn’t take well to that and dumped me thinking I was going to cheat on him.
I'm finding it very hard to love myself and be optimistic about the future. I’m probably not going to seek out romantic relationships at all in the future because I really don’t want to be hurt again.
Sorry for being a 2-month late response, but, I'm really sorry to hear that especially after being together for 5 years straight. Such a sudden change to end a relationship. I hope you can recover from this, and best of hopes! :)