Introduction
Hi 👋
My name is Cami, I'm 23 my bf is exactly 7 days older than me. I'm searching here for help with our relationship but like 90% of some fight etc is my fault. I'm having really bad mood switching since around 2 months, I don't want to be touched, kissed or even holding hands somewhere in the city is vno no' (it is possible if I'm getting excited or idk did smth I like)
He does accept me the way I am but I see it hurts him a lot and I just can't help.
There comes to this more stress at school and work for me
Ah... Idk what to do and my therapist couldn't help me (I'm about to change him)
Thank you 😊
I have been in the same situation, Cami. Its just, the difference was my ex bf didnt accept my situation and doesnt believe that things happened just like this. You are blessed to have your boyfriend that understands you and support you inspite of mood swings and irritability.
Have you talked about it openly with him?
Sometimes, when I feel bad about somebody, just like you do, most of these negative vibes are coming from us, I tend to write a list of the good things about that person. In my mind I am thinking about how he shows his love and care for me, how he treated my family, his efforts and sacrifices, remember your happy dates amd moments with him and your plans in the future together.
Its better also to express your emotions and how you feel, whether its good or bad to him or to your family member and friends. Those things will help you to release that tension in your mind and get away from stress.
I know you can do it as we are ready to give back all the love we receive right? Not everyone has a chance to be with somebody who understands them well regardless of their flaws and be with a partner who’s willing to stay.
