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Hi. I'm making purposeful choices in my dating life to try to select a suitable long-term partner. And navigating crazy relationships of all kinds.

Hi.

I'd like to overcome my inability to be physically intimate with my wife.

All the parts work, including the heart, but the brain doesn't want to cooperate. I can't get over the feeling that I shouldn't impose on her or a million other invalid reasons why I hold back.

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Hello,

My long term boyfriend and I are complete opposites. I often times feel judged by him. We've broken up and gotten back together so many times, I've lost count. I moved to a remote location for him and I can't stop thinking it was a mistake. He's cheated on me once before and I'm so insecure, I can't stop thinking he's doing it again. I don't really know what I'm doing. It'd be nice to talk to someone about it without feeling like a burden.

Hi yall. Im here because my marriage is failing and Im not sure which instinct is correct: fight or flight. Its kind of a mess.

Hi all, Sarah here, I am interning here at 7cups. How have you all doing?

Hello,

I moved to a new country and new city about 7 months ago to be with a woman who I am in love with. Last week she broke up with me. The past few months have been hard as I suffer from mild depression, and had left all my support structures back at home. I didn't see the warning signs and wasn't the partner I needed to be for her, and I really am hoping she gives me another chance. I just feel alone, scared, and helpless, as I don't many friends here. I just have so much on my mind that I would love to think through.

Hi,

Here because my marriage is failing within few months of us living together. I moved jobs and cities to be able to live with him and It seems I cant do anything right in his eyes. He has a cycle of picking fights with me then not talking to me for days and then becoming normal for two or three days when we are happy and its fun but it doesnt last and hes finding faults and picking fights again leading to arguments and silence again. At this point we are in silence phase again with him behaving as if I dont exist. I have stopped trying too now to make everything normal. I am just so tired of his behaviour and begging him to stop fighting. I have no friends in the city as its been just few months here and I mostly work from home. The only person I see most days is him and still Flight mode is setting in now as I am tired of all this and I am thinking of moving out of our home. I am not sure which is worse, being alone OR feeling alone even after having someone you love.

I just joined the group. I'm in a really rocky place with my husband. It's a long story, so I guess I'll make a thread about it, but I'm in a very confusing and lonely place right now.

Hi there. I'm new to this forum, and although I know what I need to do, the thought leaves me heartbroken. Been married 26 years but we've just kept plodding on for the last 10 years hoping things would improve...and they haven't!!