Relationship Stress Community: Check-In (January 29 - February 04)
Hello there, Relationship Stress Community!
And with this week, January is officially over. :o
To start off this week…
How are you feeling today?
What are your goals for February, if you have any?
How do you feel that this is the last month of winter/summer, depending on where you live?
Excited to hear from all of you! Have a great week ahead <3
[milk bear kisses mocha bear who is sleeping in a blanket]
Are you new to the Relationship Stress community? Introduce yourself here!
Do you want to be the first to get updates on discussions and events? Consider joining the taglist!
Do you want to be updated on the weekly discussions in the Relationship Support Room? Subscribe to this thread!
Do you want to help out in the Relationship Stress Community? Consider becoming a forum supporter or a room supporter!
@KateDoskocilova
How are you feeling today?
Miserable, but that's kind of a normal already. Lots of struggles and all.
What are your goals for February, if you have any?
Sadly enough, hopefully finally getting to psych ward. Maybe even work after that, tho that might be a March goal at this point.
How do you feel that this is the last month of winter/summer, depending on where you live?
Can't wait for summer, would gladly be done with winter already.
@OneErased I can relate to that feeling of being miserable...Also, that's a good goal to have! Kind of in a similar boat, I can't really work until some medical issues are sorted out, but it's causing more issues because of it. I wish you the best, sending good vibes your way. ✨
@OneErased
I am really sorry to hear you are feeling miserable. I hope it all gets better eventually. <3
Those two sound like good goals for the time being.
I honestly can relate. I am waiting for summer, too.
How are you feeling today?
Just "OK" for the most part. I miss my partner quite a lot... 💔There's a lot of things we're currently dealing with in our lives(both personal and legal related), but we should be able to hopefully see each other in about 2-3weeks time. I haven't been able to see him for over a month now due to long distance and circumstances.
What are your goals for February, if you have any?
Hoping to see my partner for one lol. But also figure out my health issues I've been dealing with so I can go back into the workforce OR apply for disabilities. I'm in some weird limbo. If I work now, I won't last long due to the medical issues and that'll mess up my future prospects...But at the same time, I have absolutely NO income...except for the tax money that'll come in which is equivalent or a little over 5,5kEURO/6kUSD. That'll only last so long, because I have bills to pay and dealing with an eviction.
How do you feel that this is the last month of winter/summer, depending on where you live?
Pretty OK with it, I guess?...I didn't really get to enjoy the winter time much due to stuff going on in my life. I'm usually a stray cat, who's always outside, but now I have agoraphobia due to someone I know making me almost making me unalive and having stalkers... So, I stay inside more often. I usually LOVE enjoying the weather, whether it is rain, snow, fog, or sunshine! Just having been able to...
@ImpudentIncognito
I am really hoping you get to see your partner ASAP. <3
Thank you for letting us know of your goals. I hope they work out for you!
That makes sense. I am really sorry for what's happened to you and I hope you're able to enjoy the weather soon.
@KateDoskocilova Thank you, I appreciate it! 🌟 I think I may be able to see my partner next week/upcoming week. We're also making plans to move out of state sometime towards the end of this year. (If not out of state, we'll go to a different city and take it easy from there). 😊
@ImpudentIncognito that sounds like a nice idea! hoping it all works out well on that idea :)
Hey! Great question to ask and think about!
1)Today i feel sleepy. I wanted go for walk but instead just slept as my body was signalising. I needed it.
2) goals - start learning new language - be present, active student and do learning from books, online I wanted for long time.
- plan remodelling process for kitchen.
- finding more time for personal growth in oder need babysitter( will look for one)
3) it’s not welcoming outside, feel like will need more motivation to go outside.
@shiningCloud47 That's cool that you're learning a new language! Learning languages is one of my hobbies. What apps or websites do you use? I'm trying to get back into that hobby. Also, can relate to needing some "me time" too...I don't have a babysitter for the little one, but since I'm out of work until my health issues are better, my son has been in daycare and has been giving me the "me time" that I need to self-reflect and grow... It's good to have alone time too, parents are constantly working 24/7, whether that's us at work or with our family, that sometimes we feel a bit drained at the end of the day. Anyhow, hope you're doing well! Take care.
@shiningCloud47
That is understandable. I am glad you listened to your body.
Those sound like great goals!
That is understandable, the weather sometimes isn't that welcoming.
• How are you feeling today? Feeling like feces, always exhausted, in an endless loop of motherhood, intense exhaustion, and work. Barely any closeness with my husband.
• What are your goals for February, if you have any?
I honestly don’t know, I’m very tired, my husband is already losing patience.
• How do you feel that this is the last month of winter/summer, depending on where you live?I feel nothing.
