Whats your favorite part about being single?
hello my lovely community!
Whats your favorite part about being single?
Dont have to worry about loosing another house.
Dont have to worry about a cheating wife.
Dont have to fight over the remote.
Dont have to listen to nag nag nag
.........and lotion still dont lie or cheat lolz
@AveryLove I don't have to worry about being cheated on or getting into a abusive relationship and the list just goes on!
Being able to do whatever I want with no commitment to someone
Well, nobody is cheating on me, which is nice.
Well I have never been in a relationship, but basically everyone I know is in a relationship and based off of them I would have to say not having to be tied down by anyone. I like the freedom that comes with being single. Don't get me wrong, I would love a real relationship but it is nice to think that I could move anywhere I want in this world and I do not have to worry about being in any particular place
Not having to live up to anyone's expectations
The chance to learn more about myself every day and understand myself better. Even the loneliness -- which I definitely feel at times -- is a teacher. I've gained a lot of insights into myself as a person.
Since I've been single most of my life, pretty much none of it, it sucks
Being able to focus on MYSELF. Enjoy MYSELF. Please MYSELF. Not conform to anyone else's needs, wants, pressures of what they want me to be. Feeling like I have to fullfil those needs. I only have myself to fullfil, improve and love. And that's one of the best feelings ever.
@moods01 not having romantic OCD. The absence of relationship related anxieties.
@FeelBetter83 romantic OCD. I like that term. "I have to be this way all the time or _____ will leave me". That feeling makes you feel like a prisoner.
@moods01 it does! It's a hard way to live. It's an actual term..ROCD. Check it out. Without knowing what this was, I was losing my mind. Understanding what it is, helped me save my sanity in relationships.
@FeelBetter83 this is great information to have. thank you so much!
Nothing. Being alone is complete misery. I need someone in my life or my life has no meaning
@TheRealJakeD hey dont feel like that. Being single and enjoying your OWN time is so underrated. You dont have anyone that will try to dictate you, manipulate you, annoy you. What more do you want? Focus on self love. Focus on what makes you YOU. Keep in mind that you go to sleep comfortably because no one is out there cheating on you. Cherish these times as you may be wanting it back once you are in a relationship. Go out, make friends, flirt with whoever you want, dance with whoever you want. Nothing can stop you. Dont be tied up in a relationship one day thinking "i wish i had done this".
@rationalBeach9874 I have never had a relationship and I'm already 25. I feel incredibly lonely and unwanted
@TheRealJakeD I hear ya. I'm 23 and same thing. But I remember that I need to heal myself and love myself before I get involved with anyone. I need to love myself before I love anyone else...Sometimes it's really hard. I want a relationship...it's just not the right time it seems...But I have hope that everything will fall into place in time.
