Dating advice

@brightPlum9077 If they don't come to you, you have the power to iniate a date or signal that you want a relationship. Here's some advice to walk you though it:

First find a guy who you like enough, either initially or for a while, who you would consider for a romantic relationship.
Next invite him to hangout with you time-to-time usually in 1-on-1 situations. (You two can go hiking, dancing, cooking, video games, whatever you want.) Now during those hangouts, do the usual friendly thing of getting to know him well and being empathetic. (Lookup active listening skills if you need help.) Then you want to introduce flirty dynamics by complimenting him on something you genuinely like/appreciate about him, standing closer to him, making prolonged eye contact while smiling/being happy, etc. He may or may not reciprocate. If he does that's good news! But if he doesn't or you aren't feeling interested in him then that's okay, too.

If you end up enjoying each other's company and texting often, try inserting happy faces, hearts, cute jokes and flirty lines. To learn flirty lines and movements watch TV/movies/videos and pay attention to how the actors move and deliver their lines. You don't need to reinact any of that exactly, but come to understand why what they're saying or doing is attractive and how you can put a personal spin on it. Lastly put what you analyzed into practice by flirting on some anonymous app until you're comfortable to use those words in real life.