Discussion: Who are you attracted to?
hello my lovely community! so good to see you today 
in this thread i wanted us to have a talk about our types. what kind of people we are attracted to.
what we attract from the outside actually tells us a lot about how we are feeling on the inside. Here is a good post explaining why we attract who we attract: click here!
so, what kind of people are you usually attracted to? do you know why? what could be the reason?
I'm attracted to anyone that displays any interest towards me, but in a matter of fact type of way, if that makes sense? When I really think about it, I can't think of any qualities they had, just that they showed interest in me and showed some compassion.
@lcabic12 i can relate, a lot.
@AveryLove I feel as though this is a trick question.
... I'm attracted to my wife.
@hrichardson8
well it would be a problem if you didn't
I'm attracted to my SO.
But in general, I tend to be drawn to people who are open minded, considerate, and funny. I think those are my favorite qualities in a person. Intelligence matters less to me, because I've met a lot of intelligent people who were really mean and full of themselves. Also if a person is good looking, it doesn't matter as much as who they are on the inside. :P
@Evenstar8
I agree :)
I'm attracted to an open-minded, kind and patience being. People with good heart for others and focus being..
I'm taking a different spin on this
Got no time for love - pretty much everyone is a brother to me so it takes a lot and I'm generally IMMUNE
But I'm currently having a thing for Matt Healy
Matt Healy
Him at the Brits a few years back
Absolute perfection
Plays the part so well and pulls it off
It's so funny when other people try to do it
***hold back the laughter***
To be honest, I am attracted to gentle, quiet, shy, innocent looking women. They make me feel safe in that i wont get attacked by them, and i often get romantic feelings towards this kind of women.
@AntonioCroatia
may i ask if there ever happened something that explains why you feel attacked by putfoing women or is it just that the energy is too much, if that makes sense
@sociableSpruce9018
Mostly it is my mother who is explosive with her reactions, so i guess that makes me alert when i am near most women. However, when a woman shows she is gentle and not aggresive, that makes me relax near them.
@AntonioCroatia
i understand and can totally relate except that for me it is my father who is more the explosive type
I find confidence and respect attractive. Naturally unique looks. Someone who can find humor in serious issues while being considerate of others and informed about what they are saying. Someone who is looking for challenges in life and finds interest in art and creativity while also seeking naturally unique beauty.
Someone who likes to be out of the ordinary but is not trying too hard to be "different". I like structure and security as much as spontanity and playfulnes. I like walking on the edge but still being responsible and in control.
People who question things and dont just do what they are told.
A tasteful sexual aura even in everyday, ordinary matters.
so, what kind of people are you usually attracted to? Do you know why? What could be the reason?
Personality wise someone who lifts me up and tends to see the positivit in things. Creative as I am a writer. I also love readers. I also enjoy who make me laugh and enjoy horror.
I'm weak for blonde hair and blue eyes.
(Brown eyes on men are a trigger because of a trauma I went through.)
I'm attracted to people that will accept all parts of me, no matter how bad. They don't only want some parts of me, they are content with me being a whole person with flaws.
Why does keep coming on notifications?
I said Matt Healy!
Matt Healy!
Matt Healy!
Matt Healy!
Can you stop bugging me now?
