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Does your partner have any habit that you would like them to change?

User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence January 11th, 2018

Hi!

Sometimes people we interact with, could have some habits that we do not like that much.

When it is about someone we have a relationship with, like a partner, it all can be perceived differently than when that happens with friends . Could it be maybe impact more on the cohabitation or on the relationship in general? Let's see ...

* Does your partner have any habit that you would like them to change?

* Have you told them?

* Do you think that a good compromise between tolerance but also respect of someone's dislikes, can be a goal to work on? How?

Looking forward to read your replies, I wish you a good rest of the week!

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User Profile: SmilingCamel55
SmilingCamel55 January 18th, 2018

@BeyondTheInvisible

HI! I haven't experienced it myself, but I have a friend who went through that. I know it became a dilemma because we are scared if it might trigger conflict with your partner.

Yes, I agree. Tolerance and respect for someone's dislikes are important because there is not single couple in this world love everything about the partner 100% (there will be surely something that he/she might not like about the partner - since humans are not perfect).

The best way to do it is communication. Communication is very important in a relationship and I think that's the best way to avoid any problems. Your partner can't read your mind, so he/she won't know what you are thinking. Instead of filling your mind with asusmptions, it is much better to fill it with the facts (which you can get by communicating it with your partner and find the best way to tackle the issue).


Good luck with that! Sorry I can't do much since I haven't had that kind of experience myself :)

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 18th, 2018

@SmilingCamel55

Hello there!

Thanks for your post! Sure, communication is really important, I created this thread to let people share about it and their experience!

Cheers!

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