Excitement in a relationship please explain!
So I was seeing someone for 3 months and then he said I just don't feel excited to talk to you.... But he was happy enough to sleep with me... How does that work .. How can guys sleep with a girl but not have feelings for her
@pluckyLake494
I got a question about this "he said I just don't feel excited to talk to you....".
Did you always reach out first?, Are you the one who was investing more?, Are you the one who was sharing more of your feelings than him?, Did you often talk about the future?
@freshLight64 all of those questions were yes
@pluckyLake494
Theres a huge different in interest levels here. You have and showned a high level of interest on this guy, while he started to show less level of interest in what you two have. This is going to make him feel less excited to see you or you will notice he gets sooooo busy when he was more free before. You begin to try harder when he is pulling away and coming on strong, which makes him feel even less excited.
@freshLight64
Thank you... I guess it just became one sided
