How Do I Win Back My Wife's Love?
Hey guys, my wife and I have recently been going through a bit of a rough patch. We've been together for three years and married for two. We've been through a lot, with ups and downs with both of our mental health, family issues, and even the loss of my dad. We've been busier because of our school and work schedules and that's definitely added more stress. Essentially sliding towards the dreaded roommates type relationship. I raised my voice accidentally at her a few days ago, and since then she's been cold and distant. We've talked about it a few times, with it suddenly culminating in her saying that she doesn't know if she even loves me anymore, and she is unsure if she sees a future with me. She doesn't know what'll happen and she'll have to re-evaluate once she finishes her degree and applies for a higher paying job. She says that this has been a result of me being mean-spirited and possessing certain prideful qualities which makes it difficult for her to talk to me and connect with me. This has hit me hard, and I've been really down lately, and was wondering how I would go about saving my marriage?
@kaiberJade
you will need to find a way to communicate....... you will always have busy lives and stress and over scheduling ........ finishing a degree does not end that .... even a high paying job does not end it just changes your focus or priorities.
Do you feel she said what she did knowing that would cut the deepest...... or do you think she has lost whatever feeling she had.?
IMO the issues often are more then what is being said or even cold treatment ...........
what were the things you did when first together ?
if you were concerned the marriage part was fading into roommate ... she most likely did too. right?
i would not want words or I'll try lines........ i want action....... in doing things without being told / reminded. Real romance is not a planned date night that people put too much hope on ....... but everyday attitudes and actions.
I see many people when stressed or unhappy we project that IF this or that happens...... it would all be fixed..... IMO a way to kick the real work of how i really feel .... down the road......
