How do you know when to let go when you invested everything?
Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and Ive put everything I had into the relationship Ive been there for through everything hes been through; hes been on probation, his family fell apart, he quit school, and help him with his drinking problem. Hes cheated on me a couple of times but nothing sexual and he always trys to fix it and Im giving it my all to forget the past and move on. Ive been giving him my support through everything hes done so now he doesnt drink anymore, hes off probation, he has a good job that keeps promoting him and hes only going up, hes content with his family problems, but lately I feel like he doesnt even appreciate anything I do for him and he doesnt like doing anything with me anymore and whenever Im around him it feels like Im just a nuisance. In the past weve been through many downs then everything got better so, how do I know this isnt one of our rough patches? How do I know if its worth fixing?
@azureRaspberries2718 Hey AZ, I can feel your emotions over it. Appreciate your all hard efforts you put to support him and build this relationship. I know sometimes it is really hard to recognize when to let go or understand what it is in actual.
So, how about communicating with him 1-1 and see if you both can find a reason and do something to deal with it? We are here with you. Sending you hugs <3
