I am going to die a kissless virgin
Hi, So the title says it all really, I am 18 and have never had a girl interested in me. All my friends are not virgins and have girlfriends and I have nothing. I thought I was accepting it.. But it's tearing me apart. I can't deal with knowing that no one will ever find me attractive or love me. It hurts every day and night. People say that I shouldn't worry about it but how can I not? Everyone else has something but not me. I can go from upset to angry in seconds. I just don't know what to do anymore.
I wish I could be like all of you. Because I'll die a kissless virgin. Not really bothered though. I've never had a girlfriend or wife and never will. I've never even had a friend. It's very depressing. At least you're 18, I'm 45 and the only friend I've got is half of a split personality who isn't really a friend. Sadly some of us are not going to get married or be in a relationship because well that's life. If you think I'm wrong look at the gender ratio. It's quitecatastrophic in my opinion but then again that's life. But be glad you're not going to be held down by a woman or a family. I'm very rich and successful, and I've travelled to every continent and nearly every country. Don't be too sad, you might be alone but you're not going to be constrained. Just don't let insanity get you, it's not very nice.
I feel that nowadays we are trying to rush things and force stuff to happen and when it doesn't, it falls back on the person himself whichstarts thinking negatively and gets into believing that he/she is a loser and nobody likes him/her.
In relationships though you should never push things to happen, just let it be and everything will fall into its right place, maybe that one person that would perfectly match you is on her way, just let things happen and never rush !:)
You know what, life is super strange. I was feeling exactly the same way as you do and then MY CRUSH offered me a FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS relationship 😶
So be careful what you wish for hahaha
Anyway...it's always better to wait and just let things happen naturally
