Realize it
When we have feelings for someone who we find out doesnt feel the same way back, our first response is to ask whats wrong with us. Hold up right there sister. Repeat after me: there is nothing wrong with me. Feels good doesnt it?
Were so quick to find our flaws and blame them as the sole cause of not being loved back. We get down on our looks, our personality, our weird quirks and habits that actually make us beautifully us – theres nothing wrong with them. Nothin.
As hard as it is to accept it, they just dont feel the same way about you. Were all made differently and are wired to be attracted to some things and not others
@Silverrose25
It's very hard to think it that way for me... :( I've been single for 3 years now. I've been going on many dates with many different people. They all ended up breaking up with me or saying that they wanted to be with me but only for the short term. I've been feeling like a loser recently. I think there are things I could do differently to change the situation actually.
@panda1788 you should never allow people to make you feel that way if someone can't appreciate the gem you are then don't waste your time on them
@Silverrose25 Thank you. I will remind myself what you are telling me...
@Silverrose25
Thank you for your contribution. <3
I've moved your thread to the Resources and Positivity section.
